Divine Recognition
The secret I've found is that whenever we feel like we don't matter, finding an opportunity to 'divinely recognize' others for who they really are, which means we are letting others know they matter, instantly opens us up to allowing the Universe to remind us that we matter as well. If, for some reason we feel a block to experiencing this 'divine recognition' from others & the Universe, then it's important to 'recognize' ourselves first. What does 'divine recognition' mean? It simply means we look past the illusion & remember the omnipotence that is within each cell & fiber of our physical, emotional, mental, & spiritual being.